Stella Breaks Her Silence After Split from Filip... And I Can't Get Behind How It Ended

Stella has finally addressed her breakup with Filip, and after reading her statement, it's hard not to feel for her.

In an emotional Instagram Story, Stella revealed that Filip ended their relationship over the phone after she believed they were both working towards a future together. She said she was completely blindsided, explaining that while viewers saw uncertainty about relocating on the show, she had already made the decision to move to Melbourne. The delay, she says, was simply because she needed time to wind up the business she'd spent years building before relocating.

Stella also shared that she genuinely believed they were making major life decisions as a couple. She envisioned a future in Melbourne, wanted to start a family, and thought they were on the same page. Instead, she received a phone call ending the relationship.

If Stella's account is accurate, I'm really not impressed by Filip's actions. If he'd already been processing the breakup for some time, it seems unfair that Stella was still planning her future around the relationship. Knowing someone is making huge life decisions based on a future you no longer see together, only to end things over the phone, feels incredibly insensitive.

Of course, every relationship has two sides, and everyone has the right to end a relationship that isn't right for them. But if one person is left completely blindsided while preparing to uproot their entire life, it's understandable why people would question how it was handled.

No one deserves to feel embarrassed for believing in a future with someone they loved. Whatever the full story may be, Stella's statement paints the picture of someone who was deeply invested, and that's heartbreaking to read.